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UR Date Coach - Dating Tips and Coaching for Men
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Tuesday, 30 December 2008 15:39 |
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One thing that is critical for developing attraction with a woman that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you.
Remember that when you first begin to interact with a woman, unless she already has a strong initial attraction for you - sometimes known as "chemistry", you are in a neutral zone with her. This is a place where she has yet to make up her mind as to whether you are interesting to her or not.
Now, you can choose to sift through dozens and dozens of women looking for the few that you have that instant "chemistry" with, but I find it much more practical to stimulate the woman's attraction so that she has that chemistry right away, and then I can choose whether or not to act on my own attraction. It's like getting a pre-approved loan and knowing you COULD go out and buy that new Porsche, but it's YOUR choice.
This, guys, is what seduction is all about. Having your own choice as to whether a woman interests YOU or not, not the other way around.
Back to the Neutral Zone (and I'm not talking about that Star Trek term, either...)
In order to get that tension going - a necessary tension - you need to zap her out of her neutral funk and get her into feeling EXCITEMENT. There are many ways to do this:
1. Teasing - You find little areas of insecurity, and you play with them a little. This isn't to belittle her or make her feel bad about herself, but to demonstrate your own confidence and security by showing that you're aware of your own dominance as a man, and that you do not fear her. Teasing also lowers her guard a little so that you can reach that "real" part of her personality that she is cloaking with defensive behavior. (Sometimes called "tease to please")
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Last Updated on Wednesday, 31 December 2008 11:17 |
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Tuesday, 30 December 2008 13:51 |
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Have you ever gotten so fed up with dating women and dealing with all the crap that you just pull out of the game entirely? You get sick of being blown off all the time, and really sick of never being able to reach them in the first place.
Hey, I've been there.
We all reach a point of disgust and anger about all the silly social rules in the dating game and we throw in the towel.
However, this kind of reaction implies a few things. First off, that you're needing a particular result in order to keep going. Well, that's perfectly natural. You wouldn't show up at your job every day if you didn't get the expected paycheck each week, now would you?
When it comes to dating women and the whole pick-up game, you've got to realize that you may have to walk a while in the desert before you find the oasis you're looking for. Hey, if that's the worst news someone had given me a while back, I would have said, NO PROBLEM! Bring it on!
Now the good news is that you can shorten the path to your oasis by being smart about how you get women interested in you. So, in keeping with this, I'm going to tell you about three attitudes that draw women to men.
As you read these, I want you to try something for me. No matter how 'obvious' what I might say seems, I want you to re-think your beliefs about them, and see if you are still, perhaps, working under the opposite belief in some way.
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Last Updated on Thursday, 01 January 2009 13:26 |
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Thursday, 25 December 2008 17:00 |
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 This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It's called Tease to Please.
We've all heard about being "cocky and funny," or "confident and funny," or variations thereof. This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It's called Tease to Please.
If you meet more women, you get more experience, you get more confidence, you get laid more, and more options open up to you. If you date only a few women, you tend to cling on to each as if she was your saving grace.
We're going to start you on a program of understanding how to meet women at any time and any place. All you need to do is open your eyes and set aside about 4 minutes (or less) to talk to her, if that. This approach will work ANYWHERE you see a woman, and it doesn't require you to memorize a bunch of secret handshakes or hypnotic trance words.
Ready?
Tease to Please works because it short-circuits her usual defense mechanisms to meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed defense mechanism against meeting new guys. When a guy approaches her, for any reason, she assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine of being a little stand-offish to you until you bust past this barrier.
You have 3 seconds from spotting a woman to when you approach her and say something to engage her interest. If you wait longer, your opportunity window closes faster than Ticketmaster can sell out Britney Spears tickets.
In that 3 seconds, you do this:
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Last Updated on Monday, 29 December 2008 17:07 |
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Monday, 29 December 2008 12:56 |
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 Guess What? You Are Not Special! By: Thundercat - I want to share with you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be quite troubling...
Hi Thundercat, When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ??? Honestly Thundercat, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences. This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like: "I like your tactics, but they won't work for me." "If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected." "If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combusted, scanners- style." Well, you get the idea... When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always: "No. I just KNOW it won't work." Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you... YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL CASE! Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there. Recommend this article... |
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Last Updated on Thursday, 01 January 2009 01:02 |
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